Not being able to find a definition for Southern Snob, I settled for Southern Bell and found the following, "A delicate woman of Southern birth, prone to fainting spells, mint juleps, and Electra complexes."
Given a choice of these two lifestyles, when you look at this way, I don't think there is any question which one I would prefer. After all, it was Rhett Butler who said, "With enough courage, you can do without a reputation." And, if there was one thing my Daddy instilled in me it was courage. And, Mama will just have to deal with the reputation issue. After all, reputations are so over rated.